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Narcissism

Sunday, June 8th, 2008

While I was looking up more info on the I am Special syndrome I ran across this blog. I read through it and disagreed with some parts, agreed with some, and generally have a completely different opinion than the author. But what cracks me up is that the author is discussing whether web 2.0 is creating a narcissistic gen-y… in a blog… which is about as narcissistic as you can get. By writing a blog, you’re assuming someone gives a shit about what you think. Congrats, you get the irony award.

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Saturday, June 7th, 2008

I was watching The Matrix yesterday and came to the scene where Neo is being lectured by his sexually frustrated middle manager, who was clearly given a corner office because he had to be the guy who scolded programmers for not conforming to asinine company policy.

This reminded me of an article I just read in a daily e-newsletter called The Business Record, which is published for the Des Moines, Iowa community. While you should read the article, I will quote some material from it to illuminate the disconnect between Gen-y and the previous generations.

When I ask the seniors in my career seminar class what they want in a new job, they often respond that they want to have “fun” and to work with “nice people.” They are looking for another childhood experience instead of adapting to the demanding world of business.”

Oh Dear, having fun and finding nice people to work with. Now those are some high expectations right there. What have I told you about having expectations? What I found is that the past generation (gen x) accepts being treated like shit, and even feels grateful for having the opportunity to be taken advantage of. Don’t get upset at us for having higher boundaries than you.

The author of this article, Stephen Winzenburg, is delusional if he thinks the world of business is demanding. I spend an average of 1 hour a day working. This isn’t because I’m lazy, or expect others to do my work. There are no others to do my work, I’m the only programmer at my workplace. It’s because I’m poorly managed, and I’ve been poorly managed by several companies since I’ve gotten out of college. Even with my first employer, a ginormous company who’s name starts with Northwestern and ends with Mutual, I generally wasted most of my day away talking or browsing the internet. Even then, i was considered a great employee and was very productive. At first I thought I was special, which was reinforced by all those “I am special” classes that we were forced to take in elementry school, but then a study was published that most American business workers only work an average of 3 days a week, regardless how many hours they spend at work. But that is a topic for a different post.

Clearly, with all of Stephen’s comments deducing that our generation is trying to relive our “childhood experiences” he must be a psychologist. No, he’s a communications professor at a small christian college in Iowa.

To quote Stephen again: “Instead they should learn from the original Greatest Generation that the path to true workplace satisfaction includes self-discipline, sacrifice and responsibility, and that hard work will eventually bring its own reward.”

I’d like to remind Stephen that the “Greatest Generation” was practically retired by the time us Gen-yers were born. They never were exposed to the same work environment that we are currently today dealing with. They also weren’t laid off in droves like our parents were after being so-called lifetime employees. We learned that lesson for our parents, that dedication and loyalty is not returned from an entity who’s sole responsibility is to the bottom line and the pocket books of the share holders.

For someone to make sweeping statements about our generation based off of his tiny ass class size, and a couple of cheaters is a bit silly. But he is right about one thing, that we are entitled to something better than our parents.

So many things to complain about - so little time

Wednesday, May 21st, 2008

The life of a ‘Generation Y’er (also known as Gen Why? or Millennials) is fraught with difficulties, and in this ubiquitous first post in which I am required to reason for the existence of this blog, we will discuss the greatness that is to be born between 1982 and 1993 give or take a year.   All others need not apply.

After struggling to find the cause of my chronic unhappiness in the working world, I decided not to look at myself as the source of the problem, but to all others who find it acceptable to eat the crap that is shoveled at them (you’ll find that crap is going to be a common theme throughout this blog).  It turns out that my symptoms can be neatly contained under the title of being part of GENERATION Y.  I love being pigeon-holed into a category, don’t you?  In this rare instance, I find that being named as part of a large group is a source of pride.

I found that people of my same age group have common problems and common gripes.  Us Gen Yers are known for many traits, including being tech savvy, being brutally honest, having a sense of entitlement, making people earn our respect, and among many others, putting our personal lives before our professional. 

Some of these traits and characteristics have rubbed the corporate world wrong, and caused the old farts that still play by the rules to be resentful. Another consequence of this is the poor retention rates that employers have when it comes to keeping a Gen Y member from moving on to a new job.  This also has many reasons, but one that glaringly stands out is how our parents were treated by the corporate world.  Many life long employees have been laid off in the past 15 years for making too much money, or from their employer moving their jobs over-seas.  This happened to my father as well.  Loyalty must be earned, and we don’t give it freely.

Feel free to comment, the worst that can happen is it being deleted while you are ridiculed for your moronosity.